Friday, September 13, 2013

A close call

     September 10th at 10:50pm I woke up to feed my baby. Upon standing I had blood running down me like water pouring out. I ran to the bathroom and I had ended up filling three pads full of blood with in 10 minutes. I ran upstairs to wake my husband and told him I needed to go to the ER.  I called my mom and told her to come over right away.  I left my husband at home with the kids and drove myself.  The ER was about 10 minutes away I knew I should be able to make it there in time and I didn't have time to wait for my mom to arrive before leaving.

    I arrived at the ER at about 11:15pm.  They did not know why I was bleeding so much. I was not in any physical pain at all. Just a lot of blood pouring out of me. I basically laid in the ER with the doctor and nurses watching me and hoping for the blood to stop.

    It is now 1am, the bleeding is still uncontrollable.  They take me upstairs to have an ultrasound to see if I happen to have an tissue or placenta still left in my uterus.  My ultrasound came back good. No tissue. No Placenta. No nothing. They wheeled me back downstairs to the ER where it is now three in the morning and  they gave me a shot in the arm with something that was supposed to stop the bleeding.  Well it did not work.

   They kept watching me bleed non-stop.  I had been bleeding so much that I had to have them change my pads and puppy pads that were underneath me every 15 minutes from arriving at the ER because blood was pouring off of the bed and on to the ER floor.

    Now it is about 5am and I am still bleeding. The ER doctor comes in and says well we don't know why you are bleeding and we can't stop it but we are going to send you home and you can go see an OB/GYN at 9am.  I was absolutly baffled those words came out of his mouth and I refused to leave the ER bleeding.  I told him I was not going home to die from blood loss. About five minutes later I got really light headed and couldn't sit up anymore, I almost passed out, my heart rate and blood pressure dropped fast. So fast that several people came running into my room, all I could hear is an alarm beeping from the monitors behind me and someone saying "get another IV in her we need to do a blood transfusion"  I already had one IV in my arm but they were needing two. They hooked me up with two liter of blood. one on each side of my arm.

   I felt like i was in a dream like state. I kept crying to my husband "don't let me die". "Make them help me". All i could think about as the nurses and doctors rushed around was how I was going to die and I was going to leave my young children without their   mom.  I kept praying "please Lord let them find a way to stop my bleeding, please Lord" Holding  my husbands hand he kept telling I wasn't going to die and that I am in the hospital and they will help me, even though i could tell on his face he wasn't so sure they could.  He was being brave for me and telling me what I wanted to hear.  I told him I was feeling really sleepy and to keep waking me if I fell asleep...... Finally the blood transfusion helped but I was still bleeding.

    At this point it is now almost 8am and I have been bleeding for almost 9 hours straight uncontrollably.  At one point I hear the nurse say to another nurse "we need to get an OB/GYN in here right now to see this patient" we had been waiting to see someone and they never came so they contacted another OB/GYN that finally arrived  at about 8:15am.

    He inserted the speculum and examined me. There was several nurses holding me down as he used large long Q-Tips to remove large pieces of tissus/blood clots the size of my fist. (no pain meds) My husband held my hand as I was crying and screaming so loud in pain. This lasted for what felt like forever but really only 10 minutes or so. Once he removed everything he began to push and pound on my stomach. I was crying so loud again in pain. I was then given two more shots in the arm, two pills to take by mouth and the doctor placed 5-6 pills in my bottom. 

  It's now 10am and the bleeding has finally slowed. They admitted me to the regular part of the hospital where they observed me for the next day and a half.  I was so weak, I could not sit up, feed myself or walk.  from there I was monitored every 2-4 hours. I was finally discharged from the hospital September 12th.  All of my vitals came back good except for my HCT level (blood) it was at a 24. I am so grateful for the Lord guiding the nurses and doctor that helped finally stop the bleeding.

 Thank you to everyone for your well wishes and prayers!! Praise the Lord!


   

Friday, September 6, 2013

The Arrival Of Tyler Craig Findley



(( Disclaimer: Below are photos from my birth))

     After being bumped from my scheduled induction on September 3rd I finally got to go in on September 4th at 7:15am.  When I was admitted I was at 4cm and having contractions on my own but they weren't getting longer and stronger.  Around 9am They hooked me up to the Pitocin and that changed everything. At 1:15pm My doctor came in and broke my water and at that time I was at 5cm. I ended up having strong enough contractions that I got my epidural at 2:30pm.  This was the most numb I have been with an epidural. They said they would come back and check me at 5:30pm, but at 4:30pm I started throwing up a lot... yay! and then I threw up some more.... the nurse came in and said I bet your fully dialated.... but  I did not have the urge to push like I have had in the past with an epidural. My Doctor came in to check on me at a few minutes to 5pm and I was in fact at 10cm. YAY!! time to push! I started pushing at a few minutes past 5pm and after about 15 minutes of pushing Tyler was born at 5:22pm weighing  8lbs 9.6 ounces and 20 inches long. This was by far the easiest and almost fastest labor.  It was nice and calm in the delivery room since it was just my family, one doctor and one nurse. It was not that way with my last two. This is truly bitter sweet being my last birth and my first BOY! There is nothing like seeing your child be born and come right to your chest. It's an amazing miracle.  I am now a mom to two girls and a boy! Praise the Lord for a healthy baby, momma and delivery! Very blessed!  My heart is full <3 !


Wednesday, August 14, 2013

40 & 1

     I am currently 36 weeks and 1 day.  I have been having lots of contractions but nothing that stays or is consistent.  I keep having dreams that he is coming! I am up every two hours and I am ready to have him here. I went to the doctor today and I am measuring 40cm and I am dilated 1cm.   I am nervous about how to adjust to be a  mom of three with only two hands. eeek.  Tips? Advice?

     Fun Fact about August 15th: My mom's due date when she was pregnant with me was originally August 15th but I came 2 and a half weeks early and My husbands birthday is August 15th CRAZY huh?? So maybe Tyler will decide to show up tomorrow or claim a different day for himself. 

     Any Guesses on when he will arrive?

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Big Baby or Big Momma?

     Today I went to my OB for my 33 week check up The baby is still head down and is measuring  38cm's. WOW....  My doctor checked me this week and I am still not dilated.  I also am two pounds over the weight that I delivered my second baby at (Brooklynn) OH YEA! (not)
 Fun Fact: at 33 weeks with Brooklynn I was already dilated 1 CM.  

      So either I am going to have a big boy or I am gonna be a big momma.  Anyone else measure big and it even out in the end?  

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

31 and 35

 Today I had my 31 week appointment. I feel 
like with this baby I am like a first time mom all over again. I am freaking out over every little twinge or weird feeling and making the doctor check me for this or check for that. Tyler is still head down and there is no progress as far as dilation. I am currently measuring 35cm which is still big. (should be between 29cm-32cm) I feel like he has no more room but I still have 62 days left to be at 40 weeks. One more check up in two weeks and then I start going every week! eek!

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Head down

    While I was in the waiting room to see my OB there was a pregnant lady that was handed a packet and was told to be at labor and delivery next Wednesday for her C-section. The pregnant lady looked at her son and said "sister will be here in one week" oh my gosh I about started to cry. So exciting for them! Shows how emotional I am these days. Waterworks!
     The past few days i have been feeling "lightening" and "pressure" more than usual so i was glad I had my 29 week appointment today.  He is currently head down which is why I am feeling extra pressure and lightening (like lightening bolt) . 
     My doctor normally wouldn't do a check to see if i am dilated or not today but she did since I was having those feelings.  I am currently LTC (long, thick and closed) which is very good since I am only 29 weeks.  I am measuring 32cm so still on the big side since I should be between 27cm - 31cm.  Baby needs to stay and cook awhile longer but I am getting excited!! I am also glad that I will be going to my doctor every two weeks and then every week leading up to delivery!  
     I cant wait to meet this little boy! ❤
  

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

30 cm and no name

     Today I went to the doctor for my 25 week and 1 day appointment. I am measuring 30 cm.  Typically you plus or minus two cm's from what week you are.  So for example I am 25 weeks so I should measure any where from 23cm-27cm.  I am at 30cm, the doctor is not concerned. yet. I knew I felt big.  

     Later this week I get to drink the wonderful orange sugar drink AKA GlucoCrush to test for gestational diabetes.  I have not had it with my other two girls so I am thinking that it will not be a problem this time but it is NOT tasty and I do not look forward to this.

    I am hoping that this Boy decides to come at the end of August (I am going to say August 31st) and not make us wait till September 10. On the other hand, we are having a heck of a time thinking of boy names that we like. So maybe we will need that extra time. We have only tossed around a few names and nothing that we are really set on.  Picking a name for a child is hard! 


Thursday, April 11, 2013

Second Trimester

4/1/13

  16 weeks and 6 days:   Because I had a miscarriage in December this entire pregnancy has been different.  I have been more afraid, stressed and scared. So I decided to do the 12 week / 16 week ultrasound and blood test for any birth defects.  I decided not to do this with either of my children prior. Doing this was more for me to see the baby and make sure the baby was okay to help reassure me and calm my nerves.  Today I receive a phone call from Maternal Fetal Medicine letting me know that all my tests were negative (which is good) and that the baby looks perfectly healthy so far.  YAY!


4/10/13
     
18 weeks and 1 day:  Today I actually felt and saw you kicking the lower left side on my belly.  I almost got it on video but was a kick shy of catching it. I am actually starting to feel better.  I am still throwing up just in the morning though. I am so ready for the burst of energy I remember that the second trimester came with... but so far that is nowhere in sight.  I can sleep 10 hours and still feel exhausted.

     Since this will be my last pregnancy I am trying really hard to enjoy every moment of it. Being able to carry a baby is one of the best experience that I have had in my life.  I can't wait to find out what you are little baby. I still have no idea if you are a girl or a boy?  But I know that you are special! Only 6 more days till we find out.

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Loss, Love.. Life!

     On December 5th, I went to the doctor and had a positive blood pregnancy test.  I was thrilled with joy!!  My husband and I were so happy to be adding our third child into this world soon. Then on December 8th, Three days later I woke up with some mild cramping and spotting that turned very heavy and intense.  I called the hospital and ended up staying home until Monday when I went to my regular OB.  They did another blood test and the doctor examined me and she didn't have too many answers for me but said it didn't look good for the baby.  That week I was a wreck, physically and emotionally.  Even though I had lost the baby they still had to have me get a blood test every two days to make sure that my HCG hormone was dropping back down to zero.  Basically making sure my body was doing what it was supposed to, otherwise they would have to medically intervene.